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Welcome to Progressive Women’s “Collaborative Voices” Blog September 6, 2009

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Plan for Personal & Professional Success!

 

Hello Everyone,

 

glad that you could make it over here to visit with us.  I am pretty new to blogging so you will have to bare with me as I get used to this system and it’s many posting gadgets.

 

In the meantime take a look around once we begin to set up shop and post a comment to a category or topic that you find interesting or that compels a response from you.

 

Here at Progressive Women we provide great resources, support and tools on how to set and achieve realistic goals, overcome obstacles and plan for personal and professional success in your life.

 

However it doesn’t mean that we know it all, we provide direction based from our professional knowledge and point of view but you may know of other ways that are successful also and we’d love for you to share them with us and our readers!

 

Be an inspiration to someone else by sharing your personal “lessons learned” success story or goal setting experience and inspire others to achieve!

 

 

We are on this journey together…
Progressive Women
Plan for Personal & Professional Success!

 

Work Life Balance – Are You Making Progress in Achieving It? March 29, 2010

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It is my personal belief that finding balance in your life is about “choices”. For example if you make the conscious choice to become an entrepreneur you might be aware that with that comes dedication, long hours, loads of unfinished laundry, great ideas, good company, doubting thomas’s, lost time, personal and professional empowerment and the loss of work life balance IF YOU LET IT!

Starting April 1st and ending April 30th, 2010 we will be accepting posts here from women who are currently striving to achieve a sense of Work Life Balance in their lives but are finding it difficult to attain.

* Do you know what you are doing to lose the time that you so desire to regain, but can’t stop repeating the behaviour?

* Think you need to map out a plan for staying on track?

* Want to create more free time in your life to enjoy with friends and family again?

* Want to have a balanced lifestyle, live your dreams and keep your family happy too?

Share your story during the month of April, let us know what “Work Life Balance” means to YOU and what you think is keeping you from attaining it. No judgment here ladies, just a safe space to share what you feel and to possibly explore solutions.

Have the opportunity to see what balls other women are juggling in their lives and relate if you can, know that someone else out there is finding it just as difficult as you are and that you are not alone. Share tools, resources and suggestions for getting your life back on track the way that you want it to be!

One post (submission) will be randomly selected as  our (the) WINNER at the end of the month OR we can have you all come back and vote on the winner collectively if that would make things more exciting.  Just let us know!

In the meantime post your current struggle with achieving Work Life Balance in your life. What challenges do you feel are getting in the way and what things do you think if you made the choice to do them and stuck to it might improve your situation even minutely?

We look forward to reading your posts.  Have fun and keep it real, we are all human beings and the reality is, is that we all fall into chaos in our lives sometimes but the good news is that YOU can change this and I am confident that you will!

The winner of this posting contest will be announced in May, 2010 and will receive the following ebook entitled – “Renew & Revitalize!”

Learn how to take care of yourself, manage your time, and establish priorities in your life. Through the choices that you make and the priorities that you set and establish for yourself YOU make the choice to have that balanced life!

Release some of the anxiety you feel around this challenge ladies, share your stories and then create a SMART plan of action that will move you forward towards creating a life that you love, can live and deserve. It’s YOUR CHOICE ladies, are you up for the challenge?

Invite your friends to post too, the more stories we can share the more encouragement and support we all will receive.

If you are currently working on the Life Balance MAP and would like to share some of your aha moments with us we would love to hear them.  As well as any strides you have made in bringing a sense of balance back into your life one step at a time.

 

It’s your life ladies so TAKE IT BACK!

 

Don’t Give Up! October 16, 2009

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What you want and desire in your life, give it  your full attention and your very best. Never give up on  the things you believe in namely Yourself because the results of not giving up are your biggest reward!
~Progressive Women~

 

 

 

 

 

The 4 D’s of Organization! October 13, 2009

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4 D’s of Organization
By Jeff Herring

There seems to be two kinds of people: those that have the gift of organization and those that don’t. If you are not one of those naturally organized people, you are likely to have disorganization at best, and disaster at worst.

 

Folks who know me and/or have been to my office know that I am not the king of organization. Fortunately, my wife Lauren happens to be particularly gifted in this area. It’s saved my neck more than just a few times.

 

So with the admission that I’m still struggling with this too, here are the four D’s of organization: Do it now-Delegate it-Delay it briefly-Dump it.

 

Do It Now

Clearly the most preferred strategy. When something comes your way, make sure you touch it once, do it now.

It’s so easy to put it in a ever growing pile on your desk, on the counter, or in your brain, rationalizing that you really will do it later. One problem with this is that another way to spell rationalize is rational lies. This is a very fertile ground for breeding that great enemy of getting things done and simplifying your life: procrastination.

Adopting a policy of do it now has several nice benefits:

¨ it clears and prevents pile-up on your desk and in your brain

¨ it’s a sure fire procrastination killer

¨ it also prevents that fun little hallucination that comes with procrastination, the one where simple jobs seem to get bigger and bigger convincing you it will take hours to get a 15 minute project done

¨ best of all, you end up getting things done!

Here in the real world, however, we can’t always do it now. For those situations we have:

Delegate It

Contrary to popular belief, we do not have to do everything ourselves. Somehow, as part of the disorganization picture, we think we are the only one that can do what needs to be done. It’s just not true. Pass it on to a family member, ask friends for help, hire someone, use the resources you have at hand. It’s just silly to do things that are not your area of expertise if you have access to people that are better than you at certain tasks.

Delay It

Briefly. And I do mean briefly. There are times when just can’t do it now or delegate it. The danger here is that the task could fall into the wasteland of “I’ll do it later – I’ll do it someday” never to return.

If you find you must delay something, set a time limit for when it must be completed: by the end of the hour, by the end of the day, by the end of the week, or by the end of the month. By the end of the year usually doesn’t work unless it happens to be December.

Dump It

Some things that come our way can be dumped right away. It’s not something that must be done, it’s a time waster, or you just don’t need it in your life. So dump it.

 

There are other things that need to be dumped, though. I’m constantly amazed by the amount of junk we are able to accumulate. Projects we are going to finish, articles or books we are going to read, the box we are going to sort through, and the list goes on.

 

Here’s a little trick that seems to work: make an agreement, with someone that will hold you to it, that you will take care of whatever it is by a certain date or it will be dumped. If it’s important, you’ll get it done. If it’s not important, it needs to be dumped.

 

The four D’s are simply one system for getting organized. There are many others. Just remember that a system saves you some time, energy and money.

 

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Clutter Be Gone! :-) October 13, 2009

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CLutter BE Gone!

  

Ok, so you may or may not know this but a few of my personal goals are to get my personal life cleaned up along with things that surround me to allow for more space, clarity and organization in my life and less chaos.

 

What I mean by this is that I don’t throw anything out, well hardly anything anyway.  When the mail comes in I put everything on the kitchen table and then I start going through my bills, one by one.  Then I put my bills back in their original envelopes along with the promotions that they come with and I add them to my already overflowing pile of last months and the months before bills.

 

Now don’t get my wrong, my bills are paid on time and most of them paid off ,at that each month but for some reason I still hold on to the old bills as if I can’t seem to remember that they have already been taken care of.  Well actually the real reason I hold onto my bills is because I want to compare the costs each month especially with the heating bills and electric bills to see how much more or less I am accumulating in costs each month so that I can try to stay lower more consistently, but this really never happens lolol.

 

That however is for another blog post when I cover decluttering my office space. :-)   Today though I took on the challenge of decluttering and organizing my four year olds room, which is also mommies second room for the overflow of my things! (sigh)

 

Now understand I have been meaning to clean up this room for awhile even before it got as cluttered as it is now which you will see below, but between everything else that I do there just wasn’t the time.  Now I have been practicing putting away a little bit everyday and that does work for awhile but Ladies and this is directed to you.  How many of you when you are going out for a night on the town take out several different outfits to try on before you find just the right one and then it’s time for you to go or you’ll be late to meet the others and ALL the clothes you have just taken out get left on the bed????? I’m guilty!!!! lolol

 

Anyhow this is about my sons room today (Note: I borrow some of his closet space which is why you will see some of my things in his room lolol) so after looking at the room for weeks now trying to commit myself to getting it cleaned up I finally found the time to do it this weekend in between doing the laundry and the rest of my cleaning throughout the house (which only included sweeping and mopping the floors in all rooms and cleaning out the kitchen not getting rid of the months of piled up bills) :-)

 

So here is a before picture of my sons room and please do excuse the mess and I apologize for some of the personal affects but I really am keepin’ it real in this post lolol

 

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Now here is my sons room after I got through with rearranging everything, mopping the floor and packing away all of the excess “stuff”

 

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Not bad for a pack rat huh! :-) and no I did not stuff everything in the closet, although that has yet to be cleaned out but again that I will save for another blog entry. :-) So what did I do to get myself motivated to do this job you ask?

 

Well first off the day before I told myself that I was going to clean out that room, but just in case that didn’t work and I began to procrastinate I told myself that I would only commit 10 minutes to cleaning it up today. Ha, you know what happened from there, once I got to moving everything around and mopping, sweeping and cleaning well I just got carried away and couldn’t stop.  Things got dumped into the wash, papers got shredded and items got put in their rightful place leaving you with the masterpiece you now see above.

 

I have been a pack rat for years and a clutter bug,  but when I do clean up I clean up well and I usually keep my clutter to one room altogether so that the rest of the house is clear, but none the less there is clutter and sometimes it tends to spread, so I have to take the time now and again to get things under control.

 

 

Now for all of you interior decorating types out there, please understand that this cleanup was not about focal points and decorating so much as it was about creating more space and getting rid of the open and out of control clutter.  So still feel free to post your tips but know that I am far from a decorator but I sure can clean up a room if I put my mind to it.

 

One “To Do” down and so many more to go! :-)   Post your before and after pics of one of your decluttering projects, maybe this will motivate you also to get started and keep it clutter free!!

TiP:

 

Today I used the 4 D’s of Organization.

 

Do It Now

Here in the real world, however, we can’t always do it now. For those situations we have:

 

Delegate It

Contrary to popular belief, we do not have to do everything ourselves.

 

Delay It

Briefly. And I do mean briefly. There are times when just can’t do it now or delegate it.

 

Dump It

 

Some things that come our way can be dumped right away. You just don’t need it in your life. So dump it.

 

Bye for now……………….

 

Achieving Your Financial Goals in All Economic Cycles September 27, 2009

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Achieving Your Financial Goals in All Economic Cycles

By Vinson Primas

 

In America, Charles Schwab brokerage firm published a book that states a survey that indicates only 3% of the people in America will wildly exceed their financial goals, 7% will meet there financial goals, 90% will need some form of help from others when they reach age 65.

 

Simply put, a high school graduating class of 100 people, there is a strong possibility that only 10 people will be able to live financially independent when they reach age 65, despite class, race, creed, # of family members, educational and economic opportunities, job promotion, pay raises and geographic location.

 

As a member of such a high school graduating class, I started researching ‘why’ and ‘how’ was this survey results gathered and was it really reflective of the US population. If the survey results were true, is there a conspiracy by hidden forces to keep a particular race (minority) in economic bondage as stated by Minister Louis Farrakhan in a lot of speeches in the inner city and to his Islamic Faith Followers.

 

My research findings discovered there is a way for anyone who can save $500 to get started in the stock market. Also that there are multiple ways to create paths toward becoming a millionaire over a 40 year span ( age 22- 65, most people working years). During this time people will work, marry, have babies, buy several cars, buy a couple of houses, go on vacation, attend church, get sick, make new friends, give old items to charity and buy there favorite music.

 

The number one key that differentiated the members of the 3 categories were personal financial goals, that was having achievable and believable goals in the heart and soul of the individual. Therefore, developing a financial plan that consisted of saving a percentage of take-home pay every month of your working life, obtaining insurances at a young age, building an emergency nest egg, establishing a good credit history, and eliminating your mortgage payment as quick as possible, invest in a small business that fits your passion in a growing industry, and living on a monthly budget that does not exceed your monthly income.

 

As old-fashioned and simple as these findings are, they are not followed by the majority of folks. Most people make financial decisions by listening to the media (talking heads) regarding the web and flow about the stock market directions, making must-have consumer purchases based on commercials, that create high levels of consumer family debt. Theoretically, the government encourages consumer spending via debt acquiring to keep the economy afloat. Yet, when you turn 65 – 67, social security provides you with a retirement check for about 19 – 33% of what your last employment paychecks were.

 

I discovered a personal financial lifestyle system (it de-clutters your mind and budget) that works for a individual or family to utilize in order to obtain monthly, annual and lifetime goals and still have lots of fun along the way.

 

It takes your monthly budget and dividing it into percentage categories: 70% – committed household expenses, 10% – charity or religious donation, 10% consumer debt, and 10% savings. This system works efficiently and effectively to achieve your family goals. You can utilize coupons to reduce costs in a area, purchase clearance sale items, purchase name brand items at a discount stores, make an effort to reduce current debt levels, and buy certain items in bulk during certain times of the year..

Let’s examine how you can breakdown your household spending and live on the 70-10-10-10 system.

70% – spend on committed household expenses• 8% medical/life insurance• 25% housing• 15% groceries and personal allowance• 8% utilities and telecommunications bill• 4% miscellaneous expense• 10% car (affordable, reliable, economical)

 

10% Savings• Build your emergency savings first (3 to 6 months) living expenses. It may take about (5) years to save this money for the average worker. It will serve as a cushion to absorb (unexpected expenses …auto, layoffs, family) as you concentrate on investment goals for retirement and kids college.• Once the emergency savings is established, then you begin to invest in retirement, kids college(so they can learn a trade an be self-sufficient). Once these obligations are met, you can focus on developing your hobby into a million dollar business

 

10% Consumer Debt• Setting limits on the percentage of consumer debt outside of auto purchases help keeps the ‘frivolous spending’ down. If the consumer debt is reduced, you can reward yourself with ‘fun money’. Weekend getaways, season tickets to a favorite sport, vacations, etc.

10% Charity Contributions• Giving to a local charity or religious organization that provides a service in your community.• Although there are many arguments about christianity and giving(tithes and offering). I know for a fact that GOD is faithful and loving towards you. Giving to help others activates the ‘Laws of Reciprocity’ towards you. Giving also allows you to share your wealth with the world and live a more fulfilling lifestyle.

Investing in Retirement and Kids College• Warren Buffett, states in the book, BUFFETT, for the small investor the best investment is to purchase index funds that mimic the market. The lowest cost financial firm offering these firms currently is Vanguard Mutual Funds. Dollar-cost averaging is the best strategy to invest for the long-term.Economist Zvi Bodie, author of ‘worry-free’ investing, suggest to invest in financial instruments called TIPS (treasury-inflated protected securities) and Bonds, for retirement, risk-free in truly safe assests, which may require more savings (20%) to achieve financial goals.

 

Another tip would be to purchase life insurance between age 22-25. Universal (variable) Life insurance to build a high value policy for the lowest price possible.

 

Consider the following facts, Jane lived in Plano,Texas and Jim lived in Cedar Hill,Texas. The houses was exactly the same size, except Jim house cost about $100K less, Jane put all her money into mortgage and the finer things in life. Jim lived simple and saved. When both were layed off from there respective jobs. Jim lived off savings and Jane lived on credit cards. The most amazing result in this scenario was that when both went to file the Federal Taxes the refund was the same. The only difference was that one had saved money, participated at a higher level of charitable giving that helped his community and lived a more fulfilling lifestyle.

 

I suggest that you find a hero that has attain the goals you would like to attain and become inspired to mimic. Anne Scheiber, is a little known investing queen, according to Money Magazine in 1998, in her lifetime she took $5K dollars and amassed a $22 million in dollar fortune as a small investor who followed a simple formula of buying blue chip stocks, that was low cost in growing industries and living a simple life.

 

The next time you go to the MALL, don’t become a slave to ‘shoulds’ at the expense of your goals (eliminate debt in your household and manipulative people, by any means necessary).

 

Try this personal financial system and see if it works for you. Remember, ‘I can’t’ is really a cloak for the phrase ‘I choose not to’ be financially independent in my lifetime.

 

Online life coach and financial education company. The author has a diverse background as a IT executive for blue chip and a Big 4 Accounting Firm for the past 20 years. He has dedicated his life to assisting learning disability persons with life skills. He is currently serves in a role educating others about career/life transition skills.

 

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Daily Goal Setting & Self-Improvement! September 27, 2009

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Daily Goal Setting and Self Improvement
By David Nuka

In this world in which we live, it is easy to become stagnant, to be comfortable where we are. This leads to lazy, lower-quality lives that get boring quickly. You may find yourself stuck in a rut, comfortable, but bored and getting nowhere. Have you considered setting goals for yourself? Most of us make goals around the New Year that we forget a week later.

Daily goal setting is an excellent way to improve yourself on a consistent basis. When you wake up in the morning, what thoughts usually run through your mind? What you want for breakfast, or five more minutes, or what you have to deal with today? What if instead it was, “What one small thing can I do today to better myself?”

When people picture daily goal setting, it usually involves writing something down. That can be an important step, but it certainly is not the only one. Once you have written your goal, set it in a place you will see it. One day it might be a task you want to complete or working hard to keep your temper with your family.

Perhaps the goal you choose is not something you can complete in one day. Those are called long-term goals, but they must be divided up into manageable, daily goal setting options. It might be a goal to lose weight, to save money or finish reading that book. These are fine goals, but they must be broken down if they are to be accomplished. What will you do this very day to help you reach your goal of losing weight? It could be a healthy breakfast today, an apple for a snack instead of pizza, and no dessert. These are short-term, achievable goals you can visualize taking you to your larger goal. Taking a long-term goal apart is essential in making personal progress.

Daily goal setting is for everyone who wants to continually work on becoming a better person. At the end of the day, assess what progress you have made. Maybe you slipped up and lost your temper once, or could not resist that scoop of ice cream. It’s not the end, there is always tomorrow. However, it is a good idea to have a time frame in mind for reaching long-term goals. Something measurable like the loss of weight is satisfying as you see yourself achieving what you always knew you could.

David Nuka

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Readers Lend Us Your Voices! September 20, 2009

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The Progressive Women’s Community is looking for reader questions, tips, suggestions and articles around the following topics:

Dating with Intention

Living Life on Purpose

Health & Wellness Success

Personal Growth

Your personal success story

Easy to follow and implement Financial  Tips

Goal Setting

Career Success Tips

Spirituality – Useful tips and resources to keep you grounded and stress free

 

Progressive Women want to hear from YOU our readers and followers, whether your sharing tips, asking questions that you would like the community to contribute suggestions for or sending us personal original articles that you’ve written yourself.

Share in our birth and continued growth and contribute to a community whose purpose is to aid you in your journey to making success a priority in whatever it is that you strive to do.

Click on the box above to send us your submissions.

We are in this journey together…

 

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Making Success a Priority!

 

What I Appreciate Most About My Best Friend! September 18, 2009

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What do you appreciate most about your “BEST Friend”?

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Aspire to Achieve SMART Goals! September 17, 2009

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                                       Specific                          Measurable                         Attainable                  Relevant             Timely

 

GOALS!

  

Progressive Women’s Community is here to support you while you aspire to achieve SMART goals surrounding your Career, personal growth, Relationships, Finances, Health and Spirituality.

 

We all have goals, but it can be easy to lose sight of them, especially if you are battling the busy schedule called “life”. Successful goal setting is all about aiming for something in life that you really want, being clear about what it is that you want and setting SMART goals to work towards them.  You’ll soon see how many opportunities are available to you every day.

 

When will be a good time for you to make some changes and to start creating new beginnings in your life? With every new beginning something else has to end so decide what that will be for you and then step forward into the life you know you want and deserve.

 

At Progressive Women  you will be provided with the tools, resources and support you require to start living the life of your dreams! Join us and start living, through your SMART goals everyday!

 

Progressive Women
Making Success a Priority!

 

Self Test on Goal Setting September 7, 2009

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Now this assessment seems to be a little more accurate and detailed.  You will receive some feedback on  how to improve upon your current goal setting technique and some tips for implementing future goals.

Enjoy. Come back and let us know how you faired if you don’t mind and tell us whether the tip provided to you was useful or prompted you to alter any of your current goals.

Click here to take the Quiz!

and don’t forget to share other quizzes that you’ve stumbled upon that have assisted you in assessing your current goal setting skills.

 

 
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